Thursday, March 29, 2007
I suppose if there is one place where narcissism is allowed, it is on one's blog. If you are interested in reading the student profile that the University of Houston's Daily Cougar did on me, click here.
Sunday, March 25, 2007
Christianity Interview Update
Hello all,
Having dealt with the issue of why Christians believe the Bible is the word of God, Neil and I moved on to 'why I am going to hell' in our latest installment of our Christianity Interview :-) I am being facetious - although it is clear he and other Christians believe this, Neil is far too kind to ever say something like that! As always, you can read it here or at Neil's blog. Enjoy!
-Nicholas
Having dealt with the issue of why Christians believe the Bible is the word of God, Neil and I moved on to 'why I am going to hell' in our latest installment of our Christianity Interview :-) I am being facetious - although it is clear he and other Christians believe this, Neil is far too kind to ever say something like that! As always, you can read it here or at Neil's blog. Enjoy!
-Nicholas
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Christianity Interview Update
Neil answered another follow-up question that I had and it has been added to our Christianity Interview. Comments can be left here or at Neil's blog.
Friday, March 09, 2007
Be healthy...be safe.
203?! 203!!! How did I get to 203!!! I spend half my life in the studio! 203?!!! This will not do. Must eat less...must eat less. No more fast food. No more ice cream. No more desserts...I can do this.
193...193 I can live with. I like 193 - it’s a good number. Not so high that it rounds up, not so low that it rounds down...that would make it 190. I like 190 even more. 190...that’s a better number...must eat less. Smaller portions, I can skip breakfast - no more exceptions...I can do this.
187...187 I can live with. I like 187 - it’s a good number, and I love the way it looks. “You look like a dancer, they say” - I like that. 187...one could round up, but why do that? Of course, it’s a little too high to round down…that would make it 180. I like 180 even more...that’s a better number. Must eat less. Tiny portions, I can skip lunch too...wait - my building has a gym...I can work out too! That’s it - after ballet, before sleep....run, run, run in place. I’m exhausted...I can do this.
180...I like the way I look...tall, thin, lean. They say OCD people should diet very carefully, but what do they know? I look great...I’m starving. 180...it’s a good number. If it was a little lower, it would in the 170s...the high 170s, but I could round down...lower is better, right? Must eat less...right?
Today....today I understand how eating disorders develop.
193...193 I can live with. I like 193 - it’s a good number. Not so high that it rounds up, not so low that it rounds down...that would make it 190. I like 190 even more. 190...that’s a better number...must eat less. Smaller portions, I can skip breakfast - no more exceptions...I can do this.
187...187 I can live with. I like 187 - it’s a good number, and I love the way it looks. “You look like a dancer, they say” - I like that. 187...one could round up, but why do that? Of course, it’s a little too high to round down…that would make it 180. I like 180 even more...that’s a better number. Must eat less. Tiny portions, I can skip lunch too...wait - my building has a gym...I can work out too! That’s it - after ballet, before sleep....run, run, run in place. I’m exhausted...I can do this.
180...I like the way I look...tall, thin, lean. They say OCD people should diet very carefully, but what do they know? I look great...I’m starving. 180...it’s a good number. If it was a little lower, it would in the 170s...the high 170s, but I could round down...lower is better, right? Must eat less...right?
Today....today I understand how eating disorders develop.
Monday, March 05, 2007
AIDS walk 2007
Want to donate to a great cause? Consider supporting me in the 2007 Houston AIDS walk:
P.S. Please don't feel any pressure - I am only too happy to donate the entire amount myself.
Thursday, March 01, 2007
The right side of history
Yesterday was one of the most rewarding days of my life. I joined Planned Parenthood volunteers from across the state in Austin to lobby for the Texas Prevention First Act (a bill before the Texas House which would increase funding for measures designed to reduce unintended pregnancies, the need for abortion and infection rates of sexually-transmitted diseases). The day was as rewarding as it was exciting. Perhaps the most touching aspect of the day was the number of women who went out of their way to say ‘thank-you’ to an organization which holds their interests as its first priority.
The day began at 6:30am at the Planned Parenthood clinic on Fannin. The volunteers helped load the buses with food, water and most importantly, packets containing information on the bill for which we were going to lobby later that day. An hour later, we were off to Austin. On the way, we watched a video giving us background on the bill and few pointers from professional lobbyists as to what information our representatives would be most interested in hearing. Three short hours later, we arrived at the Austin Convention Center where Rep. Mark Strama (one of the bill’s authors) spoke to us about the importance of this legislation. See Rep. Strama addressing us here and a life-sized Emergency Contraception pill here!
The bill has bipartisan support, due in large part to the fact that it provides no additional funding for abortion related services. Instead, it seeks to prevent unwanted pregnancies in the first place by funding sexual education programs. These programs are abstinence-based, which go a step further than the abstinence-only programs by educating the public about preventative measures in addition to stating the reality that the only guaranteed safeguard is abstinence.
From there, we were off to the Texas State Capitol (picture here). The building is beautiful and enormous! It has two giant rotundas towering over floors adorned with symbols of the state of Texas (pictures here and here). Of course the focal point of the Texas capitol is the dome - the only one in the nation taller than our nation’s capitol dome (picture here). Once there, we had lunch at the capitol cafeteria and prepared for our first meeting.
I was a group leader (who decided that was a good idea!) so I led my group to Rep. Garnet Coleman’s office where we joined two other groups for our meeting with Rep. Coleman’s staff. Rep. Coleman is a firm supporter of Planned Parenthood, so we knew we could count on his vote. This meeting was more of a ‘thank-you’ than an act of lobbying – a nice warm up! We were fortunate enough to get five minutes with Rep. Coleman (picture here) where he thanked us for our visit and promised his support for the bill.
With an hour to go before our next meeting, I took my group to the Governor’s office. It was by far the most ornate room we saw (picture here) – it was particularly interesting to read the history of the furniture in the room, some of which was over 150 years old (on the left of the picture, you see an authentic tête-à-tête). We left messages for the Governor requesting that he sign the bill when it arrives on his desk and head to our next stop – the chamber of the Texas House of Representatives.
This was my favorite part of the day – watching the Texas House in session was both exciting and surprising. The room is beautiful (picture here) and set up much like the U.S. House of Representatives. What surprised me was how noisy it was! For some reason I always envisioned a House of Representatives as a place where only the person who held the floor spoke and everyone else listened – boy was I wrong! It is a myriad of action with people running back and forth, holding impromptu meetings/debates and it is about as noisy as a theatre before a show starts.
We then headed to our next meeting with Senator Rodney Ellis’ staff. Most of the Houston contingent was there and Sen. Ellis’s chief of staff sat with us for about twenty minutes. After the trip’s leader presented the lobbying packet to the COS, she opened the floor to questions/comments. One of our volunteers stood and expressed her thanks for Sen. Ellis’ support of women’s issues and said she looked forward to his support on this woman’s issue as well. I then stood and made the following statement (paraphrased):
“We are keenly aware of the fact that Planned Parenthood is not an organization without detractors. With regards to them, while we clearly disagree on what a woman’s options should be once she is pregnant, we can all agree that every pregnancy should a desired one. This in mind, we would hope that you could convince even our most ardent opponents to support this bill, if not from a moral standpoint, then perhaps from the standpoint of fiscal conservatism. As your lobby packet points out, a year of family planning service costs about $180, 90% of which is federally subsidized, while Medicare charges the state over $8000 for a year of pregnancy care.”
She thanked me for my comment and afterward, the trip’s leader asked me if I might make that same comment when we met with Rep. Ellen Cohen. I agreed and half an hour later, I was shaking hands with Rep. Cohen with cameras clicking and hundreds watching as I repeated what I had said earlier. She was very kind and encouraging – and she refused to shake my hand opting instead for a hug. Speaking with a representative in the state capitol while representing an organization as noble as Planned Parenthood has to be one of the proudest moments of my life (plenty of pictures were taken – I’ll get my hands on one soon!).
The day wound down with a group picture on the capitol steps. From there, we headed to a cocktail hour at Gringos Mexican restaurant (incredible marguerites!). For the next three hours, we sat around eating, drinking, and talking about how when it came to reproductive rights, we were this generations warriors. It is a fight which is going to come to a head soon, and for the sake of every American woman – we need to be ready.
Sitting on the bus riding back to Houston, the events of the day running through my head, one thing kept coming to mind. That morning at the Austin Convention Center, Austin city council member Brewster McCracken introduced the various speakers we enjoyed. As he sent us off to the capitol, he said something which stuck with me. With the right of a woman to control that which occurs within her own body constantly threatened by a well-intentioned but misguided movement, it is important to remember that though setbacks will occur, women will ultimately win because – as Mr. McCracken put it – “we are on the right side of history.”
The day began at 6:30am at the Planned Parenthood clinic on Fannin. The volunteers helped load the buses with food, water and most importantly, packets containing information on the bill for which we were going to lobby later that day. An hour later, we were off to Austin. On the way, we watched a video giving us background on the bill and few pointers from professional lobbyists as to what information our representatives would be most interested in hearing. Three short hours later, we arrived at the Austin Convention Center where Rep. Mark Strama (one of the bill’s authors) spoke to us about the importance of this legislation. See Rep. Strama addressing us here and a life-sized Emergency Contraception pill here!
The bill has bipartisan support, due in large part to the fact that it provides no additional funding for abortion related services. Instead, it seeks to prevent unwanted pregnancies in the first place by funding sexual education programs. These programs are abstinence-based, which go a step further than the abstinence-only programs by educating the public about preventative measures in addition to stating the reality that the only guaranteed safeguard is abstinence.
From there, we were off to the Texas State Capitol (picture here). The building is beautiful and enormous! It has two giant rotundas towering over floors adorned with symbols of the state of Texas (pictures here and here). Of course the focal point of the Texas capitol is the dome - the only one in the nation taller than our nation’s capitol dome (picture here). Once there, we had lunch at the capitol cafeteria and prepared for our first meeting.
I was a group leader (who decided that was a good idea!) so I led my group to Rep. Garnet Coleman’s office where we joined two other groups for our meeting with Rep. Coleman’s staff. Rep. Coleman is a firm supporter of Planned Parenthood, so we knew we could count on his vote. This meeting was more of a ‘thank-you’ than an act of lobbying – a nice warm up! We were fortunate enough to get five minutes with Rep. Coleman (picture here) where he thanked us for our visit and promised his support for the bill.
With an hour to go before our next meeting, I took my group to the Governor’s office. It was by far the most ornate room we saw (picture here) – it was particularly interesting to read the history of the furniture in the room, some of which was over 150 years old (on the left of the picture, you see an authentic tête-à-tête). We left messages for the Governor requesting that he sign the bill when it arrives on his desk and head to our next stop – the chamber of the Texas House of Representatives.
This was my favorite part of the day – watching the Texas House in session was both exciting and surprising. The room is beautiful (picture here) and set up much like the U.S. House of Representatives. What surprised me was how noisy it was! For some reason I always envisioned a House of Representatives as a place where only the person who held the floor spoke and everyone else listened – boy was I wrong! It is a myriad of action with people running back and forth, holding impromptu meetings/debates and it is about as noisy as a theatre before a show starts.
We then headed to our next meeting with Senator Rodney Ellis’ staff. Most of the Houston contingent was there and Sen. Ellis’s chief of staff sat with us for about twenty minutes. After the trip’s leader presented the lobbying packet to the COS, she opened the floor to questions/comments. One of our volunteers stood and expressed her thanks for Sen. Ellis’ support of women’s issues and said she looked forward to his support on this woman’s issue as well. I then stood and made the following statement (paraphrased):
“We are keenly aware of the fact that Planned Parenthood is not an organization without detractors. With regards to them, while we clearly disagree on what a woman’s options should be once she is pregnant, we can all agree that every pregnancy should a desired one. This in mind, we would hope that you could convince even our most ardent opponents to support this bill, if not from a moral standpoint, then perhaps from the standpoint of fiscal conservatism. As your lobby packet points out, a year of family planning service costs about $180, 90% of which is federally subsidized, while Medicare charges the state over $8000 for a year of pregnancy care.”
She thanked me for my comment and afterward, the trip’s leader asked me if I might make that same comment when we met with Rep. Ellen Cohen. I agreed and half an hour later, I was shaking hands with Rep. Cohen with cameras clicking and hundreds watching as I repeated what I had said earlier. She was very kind and encouraging – and she refused to shake my hand opting instead for a hug. Speaking with a representative in the state capitol while representing an organization as noble as Planned Parenthood has to be one of the proudest moments of my life (plenty of pictures were taken – I’ll get my hands on one soon!).
The day wound down with a group picture on the capitol steps. From there, we headed to a cocktail hour at Gringos Mexican restaurant (incredible marguerites!). For the next three hours, we sat around eating, drinking, and talking about how when it came to reproductive rights, we were this generations warriors. It is a fight which is going to come to a head soon, and for the sake of every American woman – we need to be ready.
Sitting on the bus riding back to Houston, the events of the day running through my head, one thing kept coming to mind. That morning at the Austin Convention Center, Austin city council member Brewster McCracken introduced the various speakers we enjoyed. As he sent us off to the capitol, he said something which stuck with me. With the right of a woman to control that which occurs within her own body constantly threatened by a well-intentioned but misguided movement, it is important to remember that though setbacks will occur, women will ultimately win because – as Mr. McCracken put it – “we are on the right side of history.”
